One of my recent blog post was about me getting attacked by a motorcyclist in Seremban town and many watched, noone helped. I was greatly disappointed by the level of civilisation among the onlookers. Not only that, we often encounter drivers who drive recklessly as if they are the king of the road whenever we head out in a car. Traffic are being made inefficient by these irresponsible people. Cutting queue at traffic lights, changing lanes all of a sudden without signals... so on and so forth.

No offence to Serembanians, I do love Seremban. I love the place and I'm kinda neutral towards the locals here. Although I wasn't born here, but can also be considered as I grow up here. So don't bombard me if you are a Serembanian. I am not bombarding you.

Let me share with you one very recent 'sakai' incident which took place at my very beloved Jusco, S2.

I was shopping for groceries with my bf on a beautiful Sunday morning when we realised the supermarket is getting more and more crowded. So 'kiasu' me hurried up and went to the express lane to queue up for payment. I soon begin to see the queue behind me is getting longer and longer by the seconds. Phew... that was like one of the smartest decision I made, or so I thought.

Seconds later, I felt like my butt was being lightly hit by a shopping cart. And to my dismay, when the person in front of me moved forward, I moved forward too in order to stop my lil booty to be kissed by someone else's cart. The moment I moved forward, my butt was being 'kissed' again. I looked back to see who was directing the 'intimate' scene and turns out to be a Malay woman with one daughter standing behind her and another younger one sitting in the trolley.

Fine, I moved forward again and then as expected... the same thing happened AGAIN!!! I was kinda beh syiok already so I told my bf about it. I normally give people 3 chances to offend so I kept my cool and stood still until the person in front of me moved further again. I followed suit and this time the stupid woman not only did the same thing but it was slightly harder this time.

My bf was observing the incident this 3rd time around so he called out to the woman with a " Hello... " and immediately the woman realised what he was trying to address her. Without a single delay she shouted loudly at him " Eleh, tak kena pun! " I was dead furious that time because it was darn obvious I got hit many times and she knew what she did. It was so obvious. So I shouted back by saying " Kena lah... Sudah banyak kali! "

Then that barbaric woman wasn't happy about it at all. Not only she did not apologise, she further shouted at us with " Itu sikit aje pun nak buat bising eh?! ". I said, " Oh, kalau macam tu u bawak kereta langgar kereta orang depan u pun kata tak kena atau kena sikit aje la ye?! " Then I looked to the front attempting to ignore her. The cashier was aware of the incident and everyone else who was lining up, and noone defended her.

She continued to insult my bf and they were like about to argue on the spot already. And I heard something significant and truly barbaric from her damn mouth. " Tak cedera pun! ". What the F!!! Must injure me only I can voice out is it. My bf and I stopped exchanging words with that woman and continued lining up when she again shouted at him calling him " SIBUK!!! ".

Such a barbaric sakai. Is that the example of a good mum she is trying to show to her little daughters? Oh my... I can imagine what our future beholds if they learn from their sakai mum. Totally hopeless.

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So tonight I will be away for a 3 days 2 nights company trip at Lumut, Perak. In fact, I was born in Ipoh, stayed at Bidor and my grandparents' house is in Kampar. So I can consider this trip as a homecoming trip or whatsoever lar. You know what I mean. It's feels so good to be back.

I am normally not a travel girl. I don't really look forward to overnight trips. You know, the dirty toilets... the almost public beds... eww. How nice to just chill out at home on a weekend in your own room and cuddle up on your own bed covered with your own comforter with your own smelly but sweet scent. LOL. And I hate it the most when I have to come back and unpack all the stuffs I packed. Isn't it good that at home all your belongings are placed nicely in the wardrobe?

Yeah, that aside. I try my best to look forward to this trip. Thus, I'm on a holiday mood right now! I try to tell myself that everyone else has places to go this weekend so even if I am at home, I can find noone. Might as well I be away as well right? Especially when this trip is free of charge to me!!! Anyway that is not really the main thing. If we are to go to somewhere else I would be much less excited. But this! It's my home state yo! Perak, here I come!!!

So I hope Perakians don't disappoint me like Serembanians did. As far as I knew since the day I knew Perak till today... People there are much nicer to me. I mean, not that they are nicer than Serembanians, but they are treating me in a better way than you all in Seremban lor. You all don't treat me well then I puji Perak people lor =X. I hope I am seeing the same thing this time around when I'm back there.

Will be away for a few days. Till then, see ya...

P/S:- I'll be meeting someone rather popular in the blogosphere during the trip. Because coincidentally he/she is in the same company as I am in, it's just that I belong to the Seremban branch and he/she is from the HQ. Stay tuned to find out who...

It's actually not a big deal but in my opinion, it's one of the most ingeniuos invention ever for cosmetics.

And I'm talking about...

Shimmery puffs!!!

Yes, it's such a simple thing.

First of all, the cute design. Just like a lollipop. The puff at the top, decorated with a satin ribbon, and attached to a thin stick. The entire package is just so pretty.

Just simply puff it all over your face, neck and body after make up, and simply dust them apart to give you some shimmer and sparkle. Just like a superstar or diva! It doesn't make you look like greeting card with glitters on, they shimmers are really fine. Only looks prominent under lightings. Great for dinners. Shimmers from different angles catches light from all over the place. Shine like a diva yo!

The main reason as to why I like this thing so much is because of the pricing. You can simply get one from any ordinary cosmetic shop at the price ranging from RM 5 to RM 10 only. Isn't that an intelligently invented product which comes in a super affordable pricing? It's a must have for all girls!

P/S:- Guys, a special tip for you. This is also a very good gift idea for your girl. Plus, it's super cost efficient too.

Darn cute...

Apologies to my dear readers as this blog has been on a hiatus due to the titled reason. Yes. I was attacked and almost got molested by a motorcyclist on last Wednesday, which is exactly one week from today. Sigh...

Flashbacks of that day. I woke up with a very bad feeling in my mind. It's like a sixth sense kinda thing. I knew something bad would happen that day, so I made it a point to be extra cautious over the things I do and my surroundings. I went to work with my dad as usual. In the office, I keep hitting on the table... getting my fingers trapped by the cupboard door... etc etc.

I told myself this. " Be careful when you are walking on the streets, because you might get hit by a car and die on the spot ". I was seriously thinking like that. There are some corporate exercises going on so we had to go to the bank, apply for some bank drafts on behalf of our clients.

Dad filled up all the application forms and walked to the bank, handed them the forms and they told him that we can come and collect them after having lunch. He came back, and we worked as usual. When lunch time comes, we both headed to the bank again and it seems like the officer is out for lunch. So, dad and I had our lunch nearby and thereafter, we returned to the bank to collect the drafts and mind you... that damn officer was still not back yet! The drafts are already ready, but pending the officer's signature only. We waited, and waited and waited until 1.45pm. It was already very late. I had to be back in my office by 2.00pm to carry forward our client's orders.

As a result, I went back to the office on my own. I've always been very cautious about this. I walked along the 'kaki lima' all the time until I had to cross the road. I walked out, looked at both sides of the road, looked at the back, walked further and preparing to cross the road. All of a sudden, without a sound nor heat... I felt like something was touching my left thigh from the back. I looked to the back from my left and I saw nothing! I looked to the right and all I see was a person in a damn big fully covered helmet, riding on a soundless motorcycle. He was groping me hard it's like a hard pinch!

His intention was to grope my butt but luckily, I was walking quite fast so I already moved a step forward and all he got was my thigh. But that doesn't stop him from proceeding to pinch me real hard. When I saw him, I immediately shouted, onlookers came over to watch and he fled within a split of a second. At that moment, I was still thinking that he was to snatch my bag instead of molesting me. I protected my bag, not myself. I continued shouting and among the crowd of witnesses, none of them offered their help in stopping him.

That is understandable because criminals nowadays might carry weapons. But when the molester fled, all of the witnesses who finished watching the incident quickly retracted themselves, pretended not to see when I stared at them in fear and shivers, and continued doing their own things. None of them came over to ask me if I need to lodge a police report, go to the clinics nearby for treatment or whatsoever. I was greatly disappointed.

The incident happened at one of the main roads in Seremban, and the area is one of the busiest place during lunch hours. I'm not trying to be racist, but as expected... the molester is a Malay! I often hear that these kind of molester on a motorcycle is a Malay. I suffered minor injury from that stupid incident (my thigh is bruised) but I am severely scarred mentally. It's seriously very traumatising. I find it hard for me to trust the safety of the roads out there. I experience great fear whenever I see people and especially motorcyclists.

There's no other way I could rescue myself from letting the same thing happened. I did all I could to ensure my own safety but it still happens. The motorcycle was modified. He hid at some blind spots from the angle I will not be able to see then rode over with great speed but no sound. There is seriously nothing I can do, it's not like I was walking alone on the back lanes... Which makes me think, no matter where you are... it's still very dangerous. I have lost faith on the society. Noone will ever help you when you're in need.

Right now I am still trying to overcome my fear and dare myself to blend in with the pedestrians. But I guess things are never gonna be the same again. Meanwhile, at least I'm back in the blogosphere right?

I have thought about this issue many times before and it finally happens on one of my closest friend. Her ex-boyfriend passed away very recently due to a tragic accident. I really don't know about the incident in detail, I only found out about it today when I read my friend's blog. I seems like he was walking back from uni when a speeding car hit him and he sustained skull fracture and internal bleeding when sent to the hospital. Only his organs were functioning at the time, but not the brain. He had to be put on life support system for 24 hours in hopes of having his own ability to sustain himself but failed. Doctor had no choice but to remove the life support system and pronounced him dead.

It's really a very tragic thing to hear. JY is a final year engineering student at Monash University and given more time, he would be having a really bright future awaiting. Guess we really cannot go against fate. If it's fated that this would be the way, we really cannot do anything about it. At least he knows he's being loved and missed by many...

Back to the point of me writing this post. Imagine your ex died tragically all of a sudden. How would you deal with it? I have asked myself this same question many times before and I really cannot answer. Although it may sound like an ex is just an ex, not even your current boyfriend or girlfriend. Thing is, imagine this certain someone was once your everything in life and you have been so close to him/her for a period of time, remained friends even after the break up and suddenly you realise he or she is gone forever. I really don't know how to deal with this, seriously.

Which is why it's very important to be nice and appreciate everyone around us be it your family, friends, current or exes. Especially when you're dating someone and you did something real nasty to him/her, when one fine day he/she leaves this world suddenly you will have the regrets and guilt in you forever until the day you die. I have even extended my thought, what if your ex cut all ties and contact with you... no longer remaining as friends with you? Well, I guess you cannot force how the other party want to react and handle this but at least on my side, I would wish him/her all the best from afar. 

I really hope I won't be the last to die among the significant people around me. It's very painful to see them leaving you one by one especially when it involves some sudden and tragic death. It's very unexpected. My friend's case, I feel it hardly too. Because I am quite close with this friend and she told me quite a number of things about her relationship with this guy. And I have seen the guy in person before, although we've never spoken to each other. It makes me think, one moment he's there... standing in front of me, walking, talking and enjoying himself. The other moment he's no longer breathing.

Imagine your ex, someone who used to be so close to you lying in the coffin... Cold and frozen... Never would he/she open his/her eyes to look at you again. Never will listen to you talking to him/her again... No matter how hard you try to wake him/her up. I can understand why my friend can't get herself to attend his funeral. I would not have the courage to attend too, if I am in her situation. I can't bear the sight of his motionless body, that would haunt me forever. Everything happened so sudden, I myself find it hard to believe to accept it.

Deepest condolence to his family members and friends. My prayers are with all of you. Rest in peace, CJY. Be strong, my dearest CXY. I will be your shoulder to cry on if you need me...